My Agent
An assistant that looks for and assesses connections for you, within an autonomy level you choose — and that never pretends to be you.
Three autonomy levels
The level is yours and changes whenever you want. There is also a pause button: with the agent paused nothing happens, not even its conversation with you.
- Suggest only — it searches, organizes and proposes. It talks to nobody.
- Talk — it may start a conversation with other people, always identifying itself as AI.
- Talk and schedule — on top of that, it may arrange a meeting.
What it NEVER does, at any level
Four things are not configurable, and there is no option to turn them on: it does not impersonate you, it does not flirt as if it were you, it does not reveal your Compass answers and it does not confirm an in-person meeting in your place.
This is not a preference that ships turned off. There is no field, no switch and no screen that allows it to be changed.
The contact permissions
Within the levels where it can talk to other people, you choose what it may do: invite, introduce, answer objectively, confirm interest and collect availability.
By default, invite, introduce and collect availability are on; answer objectively and confirm interest are off. Outside the delegated levels those permissions are stored but inert — they do not apply in "suggest only".
Appearing or not to other people's agents
Being found by other people's agents is opt-in and separate from the rest. With it off, you do not appear in those searches.
What it sees of another person
When the agent assesses someone, it receives a derived summary — never the transcript of that person's conversation with their own agent, never their memories.
The attributes it can read are a closed list of fourteen items from the public profile. Gender and sexual orientation are deliberately outside that list and reach no AI-generated text.
From the other person's Compass, only neutral themes arrive, from the answers they marked as summary — never the answers themselves, and never anything they marked as private.
It always says it is AI
Before any autonomous contact, the disclosure consent must be on record. The rule for when to disclose is a single one and holds for every screen, so that none of them invents an exception.
Deleting everything
There is an action that deletes the agent profile, the preferences, the conversations, the scheduling and its memories about you. All that is left is the audit record that the deletion happened.